Tipskey - How Men Piss Off Their Girlfriend

Posted on 2007-11-20

How Men Piss Off Their Girlfriend

I am going to focus on the things on the emotional level here. Girls are made of emotion anyway. Let us start.

He is being too good or too bad. When a man is too good, he is boring. When a man is too bad (for example he easily engages in a pointless physical fight with other people), she will feel insecure in long term relationship. Women want a guy that is not too good and not too bad.

He does not like to compete (as in healthy way). Similar with the animal kingdom, Women want a dominant guy who is strong enough to protect her. That means his gene is strong and is worth to pass on. One additional thing that the animal kingdom does not have is women want a guy who is also mentally strong.

He tells others, who know his girlfriend, her bad things. He can only do that if others do not know her and will never have a chance to know her.

He does not get to know her interest. For example the thing she likes to do, the fruit she likes, the food she likes, the book she likes, the song she likes etc.

He lets her look at his personal finance. He answers when she asks him about his financial details. He shows her his bank books. Example of question: how much do you need to pay your credit card this month? Worse if he tells her even she does not ask about it. If he does this, he has to make sure he continues to do it. If one day he thinks he should not do that anymore, she will be mad (guessing that he is spending his money on other girl).

He gives her a credit card. Girls generally do not have consumer awareness when shopping. This can later be a topic of quarrel.

When she says she does not look so good that day, he agrees with her. Oh man, she actually expects him to deny it.

He treats her very nicely. Treating the girl very nicely is a type of manipulative behavior too.

He does not do something special on her birthday. It does not have to be a gift. If it is a gift, it does not have to be an expensive gift. Let it be a surprise.

He lets her live with him before marriage. A-few-day stay is OK. He and she will live together for whole life after marriage. Living together before marriage may make the life after marriage becomes boring quickly.

He does not take care of his appearance when he is with her but he takes care of his appearance when he is not with her.

When she asks him to buy something, he says yes although he has not considered about it yet. He should always answer no and think about it instead. He can still say yes after considering. But if he says yes first but says no after considering, she will be very mad at him.

He lets her take control of his handphone. Actually he should even walk away (if the space is big enough) when somebody calls him. Do not tell her who calls. Girls are sensitive, a normal call can make her associate with many things if she sees it. So it is better not to let her take control from the beginning.

He regards her as a very close person with him and becomes lacking to be impressive. He should be impressive all the time. He must never think that because he is already so close with her he does not have to be impressive (ignoring the details etc).

He does not fulfill his promise. If he does not like to do it, he must not promise it.

He responds by doing something good or bad on her when she acts unreasonably, He should just keep quiet and does his own things. He does not even have to tell her that is unreasonable because she also knows it is unreasonable. He does not have to answer her call temporarily.

He talks about his ex-girlfriend. Girls know that memory cannot be deleted but they will still be angry if the guy shows that he remembers his ex. Here lie makes the girl happy.

He takes her words literally when she says that he does not have to do something for her. Actually she means he should do something for her. For example if she says that he does not have to call tonight, it should mean he must call her tonight.

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